10/16/2012

The Trinity of Being Healthy: Part One




It's simple, really. People have the most success in losing weight and getting healthy by attacking it from three angles: nutrition, lifting weights, and cardiovascular fitness. The biggest changes I made were in the area of nutrition. I'll cover the other two areas soon.

First things first: I had to learn what to eat and what not to eat. My trainer gave me a list of guidelines along with a grocery list and an example menu. (If you want more details, you'll have to hire her!) Basically though, I started "eating clean." I eat whole foods, prepared in ways that are close to their original state. I use spices for seasoning, not pre-packaged sauces. I eat lots of raw veggies with hummus. I try to shop mostly around the edge of the store (produce, meat, and dairy, some frozen veggies and fruit), and avoid the middle aisles which contain all the highly processed food that our bodies can't effectively digest.

I eat LOTS more protein throughout the day than I ever did before. Because protein is digested at a slower rate than carbohydrates, it gives you "staying power" throughout your day and doesn't make your blood sugar spike and then crash like carbohydrates will. When I replaced my daily afternoon Diet Dr. Pepper with a protein smoothie, I became a much nicer person to be around. I have been able to make it through the afternoon and witching hour without hitting an energy slump, or anyone else for that matter!

Don't get me wrong - you still need carbohydrates! I quickly learned that I had to eat the right ones. All carbs are not created equal! If I ate a slice of bread with a little bit of spray butter on it (70 calories), I was never satisfied and craved more bread like crazy. If I chose a handful of grapes and a few almonds (also 70 calories), I was fine until my next big(ger) meal. I now know my triggers for cravings, and avoid them as much as possible. It's like my body is super-sensitive to them now! I tried a little experiment a few weeks ago. I cut out bread for an entire week, staying within my calorie limit. Then, I added one serving of bread per day for two days, staying within the same calorie limit. I gained two pounds in those two days. I know my little experiment doesn't meet any kind of scientific standard. However, I also know that my body is really sensitive to bread. As a result, I eat it NO more than twice a week. Lysa TerKeurst says you crave what you eat. She explains in this video (the quality isn't that great, but the truth is!). Once I stopped eating the bad stuff, I started craving the good stuff!

I drink a gallon of water a day. I might have 2 cups of hot tea in morning/evening. Other than that, it's water for this girl. Nothing else will satisfy my thirst now.

As I've done more research and walked further on this journey, I'm learning that Hippocrates had it right. We are triune beings, made up of mind, body, and soul. Eating the right food restores and heals your body such that you are better able to deal with anything that crosses your path, whether it's psychological, physical or spiritual in nature. I still believe that modern medicine is necessary. The point is that you won't need modern medicine as often if you're fueling your body the right way. You can't control everything that happens in your life. However, you can prepare your mind, your body, and your heart in a way that minimizes the effects of those circumstances on your overall health. Try it and see what happens! I triple-dog-dare you!

Here are some of my favorite sites for recipes (there are so many out there!):
Paleo on a Budget
Fast Paleo
Bodybuilding.com
Gluten Free Homemaker
Gluten Free Goddess

I use the MyFitnessPal app for iPhone, though you can use the website, too. They're both free!



*Disclaimer: I am not a nutritionist, a certified trainer, a doctor, or any other type of health professional. I am simply sharing what I have learned works for me!*

10/11/2012

How'd ya' do it?!

We've had an intense seven months, both professionally and personally. I had to give up something, and writing in this space was it. While the journey of these last months has been hard, there have been many victories. 

The biggest victory has been a very personal one for me. Since April 16, I've lost 30 pounds, 34 inches, and 10 percentage points of body fat. 

So, you ask, "How'd ya' do it?" 

I wish I could say that it was easy, that there is a magic pill that you take to miraculously melt away the pounds and fat. There's not. However, I have made a lifetime change for my wellness. I won't go back to the way I lived before!
My Before: Easter Sunday, April 8, 2012
The first thing I did was hire a trainer. I had been running on a regular basis, but was unable to lose more than 10 pounds. After watching a dear friend completely transform her body, I asked her "How'd ya' do it?" She directed me to the lovely Meg McGee. Meg and I chatted for a bit and I hired her. Over the next twelve weeks, I learned how to eat clean, lift weights, and do more effective cardio. I managed to lose weight even though we went on two long trips (San Antonio, TX and Orlando, FL). I was shocked by the stability of my energy level throughout the day. It was incredible! I didn't have crazy cravings, the 3pm WALL disappeared, and I lost 17 pounds and 18 inches. 
After 12 weeks: July 5, 2012
But I wasn't where I wanted to be quite yet. I decided to continue with Meg for another 12 weeks. I learned even more about this new lifestyle, and really felt like I achieved and maintained the new heart and mindset. I also read Made to Crave  by Lysa TerKeurst during this phase. I highly recommend it! My friend, Jen, has an entire blog series on the book. Her insights mirror mine. At the end of 24 weeks, I lost a total of 30 pounds, 34 inches, and 10 percentage points of body fat. 
After 24 weeks: September 30, 2012
So, that brings us to today. I'm still trekking. My new goals include losing five more pounds and five more body fat percentage points, going down one more jeans size, and shaving a minute off my mile time. I've never felt better or healthier in my adult life than I do right now (even though I've weighed less than I do right now!).

Without further ado...(drum roll please)

Christie's Top Ten Lessons Learned

1. More than losing weight, this has been a journey of developing self-control and accepting discipline in an area that was woefully lacking both. (Galatians 5:22-23, Hebrews 12:11)

2. I NEED accountability and mentorship in all areas of my life. (Proverbs 19:20)

3. All things are allowable. Not all things are beneficial. (1 Corinthians 6:12)

4. Chicks can lift heavy weight, too (and shouldn't let burly boys get in the way). (Philippians 2:14-15)

5. I'm finally ok with how I look (with the baby-stretch marks, gray hair, etc.), and it's NOT because of the number on the scale. (Psalm 139:14, 1 Corinthians 6:19-20)

6. Eating clean can be appetizing and delicious. (Proverbs 31:14

7. 0500 comes every morning. What I do at the moment the alarm goes off defines the rest of my day. (Psalm 118:24)

8. I have an amazing group of encouragers. (Ephesians 4:29)

9. There is an immense difference between training to do something and trying to do something. (p. 43, The Life You've Always Wanted by John Ortberg)

10. Be strong and courageous, and DO THE WORK! (1 Chronicles 28:20)

3/12/2012

Just keep counting, counting, counting...



I'm not naturally optimistic, mostly a realist, I think. An optimistic realist maybe? Looking on the bright side of things has taken some serious mind and heart training for me. Hubs is an eternal optimist, and sometimes it drives me nuts. His optimism pushes me to think differently and pulls me out of my occasional doldrums.

This counting though...this has put me over the edge. My outlook on life is directly related to my counting of the gifts. So, Mr. Grumpy Gills, when life gets you down, you know whatcha' gotta' do? Just keep counting, just keep counting, just keep counting, counting, counting....what do we do? We count!

146. friends who can be trusted with the hardest conversations

147. the wonders of technology allowing us to chat even though we're half a world from one another!

148. having to let my prayers hug when my arms can't

149. Hubs unloading the dishwasher again and again

150. Monkey's little sayings...many having to do with poop

151. really healthy boys...Gator is 4'7" and 81 lbs; Bull is 4' and 50 lbs; Monkey is 3'1" and 33 lbs!

152. being excited about a study

153. new friends

154. OAMC - I only spent 15 minutes in the kitchen tonight prepping dinner!

155. looking forward to redeeming my birthday present - a massage and facial - tomorrow night!

156. learning life in a new place

157. getting used to having Hubs home

158. being comforted after a nightmare

159. remembering that it's alright to miss familiarity

160. knowing that familiarity will grow

3/10/2012

Once A Month Cooking

My mother taught me how to meal plan. I've done it since I was in college. I saved money at the store, time on a daily basis, and pounds on (off?) my hips. I continued to meal plan when I got married, and then when we started having kiddos. However, when we started home schooling, I found it harder and harder to feed my family a healthy meal at home on a regular basis. I was exhausted at the end of the day! And really, who isn't? Regardless of our circumstances, we are all busy and have demanding lives. So, in my desperation, I reached out to my home schooling mentors and learned more about Once A Month Cooking (OAMC). It has really been a life saver for me. 

I haven't been able to do a batch of cooking since last October. That batch lasted us through redeployment and block leave. But then, we had to get ready to move, and had to empty the freezer. Those were some interesting meals! 

Now that we're settled, both physically and mentally, it is time to start planning again. After all, soccer season starts soon! That means practices twice a week for two kids! Ack! 

Two days ago, I made my menu and my grocery list (regular groceries as well as supplies for OAMC). Yesterday, I went to the commissary and stocked up. Today, I woke up and started cooking around 9am.
Most of my groceries for OAMC
I paid Gator to babysit Monkey since Hubs had to take the van into the dealership for a check-up. Gator kept him occupied while I chopped, sliced, diced, and chopped some more. By the time Hubs got home a couple hours later, I had finished all but one of the chicken meals.
Gator doing puzzles with Monkey

I needed Hubs help for that last meal. He flattened the chicken for me. See! It can be a family affair! 
Hubs goofing off with a frying pan
I had to take a two hour break to make lunch, help with the trampoline assembly in the backyard, and put Monkey down for his nap. Then, I got back to cooking. At the end of the day, I have twelve meals ready to pull out of the freezer, thaw, and dump in a baking dish or the crockpot: baked flank steak in tangy tomato sauce, chicken cacciatore, steak picado, Hawaiian chicken, beef fajitas, chicken parisienne, spaghetti, Italian stuffed chicken, pizza (so I didn't make this one!), baked jambalaya, continental beef, and cranberry chicken. To round out the menu, we usually go out to eat after ChapelNext, and have sandwiches on Sunday night before AWANA. [An aside: this has been a tough concession for me. I grew up eating a big dinner on Sunday after church with china, silver, crystal, and cloth napkins. Since we're a ministry family and Sundays are a "work" day for us, I try to choose another day to have our special meal.] We always have pizza on Friday or Saturday night. So, here is three weeks of food for my family, completed in roughly 8 hours! (As I was cooking, I realized that I forgot to buy the meat for one of the meals. I have all the rest of the ingredients though.)

All of my hard work, just waiting to be cooked!
Here are the cookbooks I use: Once A Month Cooking, Once A Month Cooking Family Favorites, Don't Panic Dinner's in the Freezer, along with a few family recipes. There are so many more available! Check your library first. That way, you can try it out for a month and see if it is a good fit for your family. 
There is so much information available on the internet, too. Just google "once a month cooking" and you'll get over five million hits! 

Many people take this a step further than I. They shop the sales and track grocery store loss leaders. I don't really feel a need to do this since I get all my meat at the commissary for a good amount of savings. Tracking sales will only save you more money! 

I suppose I've let the cat out of the bag. This is one of my sanity keepers. It's so nice to walk out to the freezer, choose a meal, and know it will be done without a lot of daily effort. 

Maybe it will work for you, too!

2/27/2012

Have you ever had a good day?

"Have you ever had a good day?" 


His words pierced me. The eldest of my blessings was wondering if I had ever had a good day. Embarrassed and bewildered by his question, I answered in the overwhelming affirmative. However, I realized how my ingratitude had taken a toll on my family. 

The last months of the deployment and the first few weeks of Hubs being home had been tougher than I wanted them to be. I was so weary. Nothing particularly bad happened, but I had struggled to find the good. Ann Voskamp calls this the hard eucharisteo. I only focused on the hard and forgot about the thanksgiving....the thanks-living

Someone once told me that his wife set the tone for their home. I realized then that this was certainly the case for our home. Yet I have failed to show my children how to be grateful for the seemingly inconsequential, the simple things, as well as the big evidences of grace. 

Thinking that I had so poisoned my home with my ingratitude broke my heart in two. 

And so, with his words echoing in my mind, I chose differently that day and most of the days since. I work without (much) complaining. I (mostly) enjoy the simple and mundane. I (generally) keep a good attitude. I even have a little bit of fun. 

I reap what I sow. I have GOOD days. 

And I am sure to tell my deep thinker, too. 
a constant reminder at the end of my hallway

Counting the gifts...


66. Bull's incredible curiosity of late
67. answering lots of questions
68. an understanding husband
69. running for the first time in a long time
70. my foot doesn't hurt!
71. watching my blessings choosing to bless others through World Vision
72. Monkey's incredibly cute mischief
73. Gator's Spirit-led question
74. counting His gifts once again
75. a better-than-expected house
76. an easy transition
77. seeing familiar faces in unexpected places
78. reminders of good friends spread throughout my new house
79. a hot shower, a lock on the bathroom door, and a loud bathroom fan
80. a home that fits our extended family
81. being closer to family
82. good friends who send unexpected e-mails
83. music
84. new friends for the boys
85. hugs before friends deploy
86. friends to support like I was supported
87. our new chapel home
88. PWOC tomorrow! 
89. Hubs' new dream job
90. my life

2/25/2012

Whew!

It's been a really, really long time since I posted here. I have missed it, but I've not had the extra time to devote to it. I'll do a really quick run-down of the last 5 months. FIVE MONTHS?!
We celebrated birthdays in October. Hubs got home safely for his deployment in November! We saw most of our family over the holidays. We celebrated more birthdays in December. Hubs' grandfather passed away at the ripe old age of 100 in January. We moved in February.
That's a lot of life!
We live in the Eastern time zone again! We are much closer to our family. We have a fabulous home with amazing neighbors. Honestly, we couldn't have asked for a more appropriate place for us right now. The boys have already adjusted and love it here. We had to think creatively in a few cases, but we're thrilled with the results. Here are some pictures of our new digs!
our front door with lots of new decorations
living room from the entryway
home school area from living room
back toward the living room from the home school area
kitchen with my awesome new rooster in the corner
kitchen from the dining room pass through
dining room 
coat closet to the right as you come in the front door
why yes - my pantry is in my coat closet!
coat closet is to my left as I look down the hallway 
1st door on the right: Bull and Monkey's room
1st door on the left: Gator's room
Gator's room
more of the hallway 
boys' vintage powder blue bathroom (the first door in the previous picture)
it's a long hallway!
Hubs calls it the Phone Booth (his uniforms are in this closet); I call it the sewing room 
our bedroom (last door on the right from the hallway)
our vintage brown bathroom
Eucharisteo!