Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she smiles at the future. Proverbs 31:25
12/24/2007
Merry Christmas!
12/18/2007
And the winner is...
In other news, Gator got to go to school today! I know that he's missed it (we've all been sick). Hopefully, Bull will be able to attend on Thursday. I am glad that they are well enough to go back to school. I'm praying that 2008 will be a healthier year for all of us!
12/16/2007
Warning: more serious than normal...
Part of a recent journal entry:
Hello. My name is Christie. It's been 7 days since my last quiet time...
Somedays I am horribly apathetic about my life. My goals are getting the house clean, the laundry done and dinner on the table. IT SHOULD NOT BE SO! I have one of the most precious and meaningful jobs on the planet - raising the next generation of Christ-followers. And yet I reduce it to laundry, cooking and cleaning. The trick is that to raise a Christ-follower, I have to BE a Christ-follower. But I am a Christ-forsaker in many senses.
I forsake Him so I can:
-empty the dishwasher or fold that last load of clothes.
-write my never-ending to-do list for tomorrow.
-have the company of electronic media and celebrities I can't relate to.
I forsake Him when:
-I yell at my kids instead of being gentle with my words and kind with my actions.
-I rely on my Psychology degree or a parenting book instead of His Word and counsel.
-I try to do it on my own without His strength.
-I ignore, badger or complain to my husband instead of respecting him with my time and attention or encouraging him with a word fitly spoken. (Please don't let him go to the corner of our roof! ::smiling::)
-I turn off the alarm clock that beckons me out of bed and instead roll over and go back to sleep.
When will I figure out that if I put Him first all other things will pale in comparison, yet shine so much brighter because of time spent with the lover of my soul?
Forgive me for forsaking and neglecting You, for being too busy "serving" and not loving and knowing You. You are the only way I will have the abundant life and not just the accomplished-I've-checked-everything-off-my-list life. Help me to prioritize and focus my attention on what matters!
12/14/2007
12/08/2007
Go Gators!
12/02/2007
Christmas trees!
Behold, Ratzilla!
11/30/2007
Support our troops!
1. First and foremost, pray for these families. There is nothing more powerful than prayer. Be diligent to pray for the marriages (where appropriate) and the children in these situations.
2. Offer to do something specific: you'll take the kids on Friday morning for 3 hours; you'll be there at 9am on Saturday to do the lawn.
3. Invite them to dinner (their kids too!), especially on Sunday. Sunday afternoon was the loneliest time of all for me, and it was wonderful when I got to spend it with friends.
4. Show up at their door with their favorite drink from their favorite place and just visit for a little while. The adult conversation is priceless!
5. Make an emergency meal (casseroles are great) with cooking directions, for them to store in the freezer. There are so many times that I have been guilty of making frozen pizza one night, fish sticks the next night, cereal the third night, and sandwiches the fourth night for dinner. Yikes!
6. Send a card or email of encouragement. It never fails that those notes always come at just the right time and say just the right thing to strengthen the resolve of the receiver. I can't tell you how many times I have had the worst possible day, go check the mail and walk back with tears in my eyes because of God's timing.
7. Be understanding! The kids' behavior may have changed. The person might be more frazzled and forgetful than normal. Extend an extra measure of grace when given the opportunity.
8. Spend time with the kids. This is especially important when Daddy is absent or deployed and the kids are boys. I have seen this time and again with my own boys. Wrestling just isn't the same with Mommy. Also, if there is a special event coming up (Father-Son camp out, Mother-Daughter tea, Father-Daughter dance), adopt the kid as one of yours and take him or her to the event.
9. Adopt a chaplain or send a care package. There are tons of websites related to this. Here are two: http://www.anysoldier.com/, or http://www.adopt-a-chaplain.org/.
There are so many other things that you can do to support our soldiers and their families. These are just a few examples. Even if you can't do anything else, please do #1!
11/18/2007
Whew!
11/06/2007
Arrggghhh...
On a more positive note, Bull had his first Early Steps appointment this morning. We did lots of paperwork, and L, our case worker, observed him for a little while. Bull has a slight speech delay that we are working to resolve. He's had chronic ear infections for the last 1.5 years, ear tubes for 1 year, and a talkative big brother for his whole life. The best part is that this service is free as of right now (though that could change). He'll be going in for a hearing screening, and his first evaluation will be sometime next week probably. So, the ball is officially rolling!
11/01/2007
Birthday Party


10/29/2007
Happy Birthday Bull!
10/26/2007
Some pictures...
10/25/2007
Big weekend!
10/16/2007
Baseball
10/06/2007
South Cack-a-lacki
10/01/2007
Vaccines and Autism
Here are some interesting links:
Talk About Curing Autism Website: http://tacanow.org
Useful guidelines to follow when getting vaccinations: http://www.talkaboutcuringautism.org/medical/danprotocol.htm and http://www.talkaboutcuringautism.org/vaccines/vrules.htm
Alternative vaccination schedule:
http://www.generationrescue.org/pdf/user_friendly.pdf
Take control of your health care and the health care of your family. Don't be un-educated! And don't be bullied. You are your child's best advocate.
9/29/2007
It's Clathrus columnatus
What is that?!
9/28/2007
It can only get better...
His favorite phrase is, "Watch this trick!" Now that he's older, the tricks are a little more dangerous. No ER trips for stitches or broken bones, yet.
9/26/2007
More green
9/24/2007
When it rains...
And the wet sand that was left inside my house. By the way, vacuum cleaners make interesting sounds when vacuuming up wet sand, very high pitched and squealy.
Oh, and Bull was eating the sand, of course.
9/20/2007
Bull's first day...
9/19/2007
An old post...
I've been reading a couple of pretty cool books recently. The first is Living Green by Greg Horn. It offers a boat load of things that everyone can do to help out the environment, and you don't have to spend any money to do most of them. The other book is The Maker's Diet by Jordan Rubin. It offers ideas for clean dietary living. And while we can't afford to go all out on organic food, we're trying to do some stuff. There's a bonus to most of this stuff too. In many cases, it SAVES you money! Since we're on a strict budget while Hubs is in school and trying to be good stewards, this is important to us.
Here are some examples of what we're doing.
1. We replaced our old school thermostat with a digital thermostat (our furnace had to be replaced this winter). Bonus: lower electric bill
2. We have a clothesline in our backyard that I try to use on laundry day when it's sunny (which happens a lot here). Bonus: lower electric bill
3. We have a compost pile in our backyard. Hubs continues to make fun of me about this one. But I don't care! I know that my garden (when I get around to planting it) will love it. And we aren't sending as much trash to the landfill with the grass clippings and food scraps that we use in the pile.
4. We are buying organic fruit and veggies (when available) with our second choice being locally grown stuff (LA has a lot to offer, who knew?), as well as "yard eggs." Also, I'm trying to stay away from pork and other not-so-great foods, like processed stuff.
5. We try to open the windows as much as possible to air out the house. Also, we turn off lights that we're not using (duh!). Bonus: lower electric bill.
6. We are recycling. For most people, this isn't a big deal. But around here it is. We don't have curbside pick-up anymore (another casualty of Katrina), so we have to take our recycling clear over to Biloxi, MS.You're thinking, doesn't that gas use offset the recycling? In our case, no. We have to go there every month for groceries, and a trip to the retail store on post. So, we just load up the recycling and take it to their center.
7. We have bought organic pajamas for the boys. We will continue to do so as money and need permit. Also, I'm trying to shop at consignment stores for the boys clothes (saves money and is a version of recycling!).
8. The next time I have to buy replacement bulbs, we will buy CFL bulbs instead of incandescent. Bonus: again, the electric bill.
9. Once I run out of my cleaning chemicals, I plan to replace them with good old vinegar and lemon, pending more research on the exact formulation. Bonus: vinegar is A LOT cheaper than the regular stuff.
10. Instead of using chemicals on our lawn, we're pulling all the weeds (there's lots of them) by hand. It helps our compost pile too! Bonus: money saved, no yucky chemicals for our kids and dogs to roll around in.
So, this is proof that a redneck and a stay-at-home mom on a tight budget can be environmentally conscious. I'm sure that you can figure out at least one thing to change. Try it. You may even save some money!
CH-BOLC
Hubs was chosen as the class leader for this part of the training. I think that it's pretty neat, especially considering that there are other prior service guys in his class who have more Army experience than he does. Today is Day Three. Only 5 1/2 more weeks!
9/18/2007
First Day of School
Today was Gator's first day of school and he LOVED it! Before we left, he wanted to know if he got to ride the bus. He was bummed when I told him no. And he asked if it was time to go about a million times! After school, he didn't stop talking all the way home. He even told the Barista at Starbuck's that he got to go to school today. This was his synopsis of the first day: "I have lots of new friends. We got to play with bugs. We went to the playground." He ate everything in his lunch (it was a lot of food!) and got a green happy face for behavior (that's good). He also told me that he fell asleep during rest time. It's only 20 minutes long, so I know that he must have been very busy all day. Bull was a little unsure of what to do with all the Mommy attention that he got! I think that he missed his big brother though. Bull starts Mother's Day Out on Thursday. More pics then!
9/17/2007
Psalm 95
Psalm 95:8 refers to the Israelites complaining of no water (see Exodus 17:2-7). Moses, according to God's command, strikes the rock and water comes forth. Jason learned in one of his classes that this was a common practice among Bedouin shepherds. Because of the terrain (lots of limestone) in that area, water would filter down into rocks and eventually calcify providing a well of sorts in the rock. A good shepherd would know how to strike the rock just right for water to come gushing forth.
In verse 7, God calls us the sheep of His hand. It was the shepherd's job to provide pasture (God provided manna and quail) and water (from a rock) for his sheep. Many of the Israelites were shepherds, so they were familiar with the job description. The nation of Israel should have known (and I should know) that if the Lord claims to be the Shepherd, He will provide for the needs of His sheep. It's what shepherds do.
When God told Moses to strike the rock, in effect He was telling the Israelites to remember, in a not-so-subtle way, that He was their Shepherd and He would provide for their needs.
Isn't it funny when God uses regular everyday stuff to remind us that He is God? Striking a rock to produce water was something that many of the Israelites had at least seen, if not done, themselves. The Israelites are an easy target, but I try very hard not to pick on them. The truth is that I am very much like an Israelite. It takes God using the Duh! moments to get my attention. How patient and loving He is with me!
Kinda' like a Shepherd with His sheep...
9/13/2007
Home again, home again, jiggety jig
9/12/2007
Gigi, Uncle A and Little Pea
9/10/2007
Amarillo by morning...
9/03/2007
Balloon Classic
Gator was fascinated by it. His favorite balloon was the one with the "Target" bullseye on it. Ha ha! Bull was perfectly happy eating his breakfast biscuit the whole time. I'm not sure that he noticed all the activity around him. Then we went back to America the Beautiful Park again. Bull is saying "Whoo hoo!" again on the swing and Gator is way up high! Fun morning!
9/01/2007
Soccer and Spring Canyon
We got to visit Spring Canyon this weekend. Unfortunately, Bull wasn't feeling too hot, so we left a little earlier than we expected. But we still had a great time exploring the ponds and playing on the playgrounds. Bull has started raising his hands and saying "Woo hoo!" He says "whee" when he's on the swing, and he calls me Mommy (instead of Mama) now.
Gator climbed up on top of these monkey bars a number of times. What happened to my cautious child?!
It's hard to believe that we only have a week left! We'll be heading back to Louisiana on the 10th.
8/30/2007
Random pics from this week
America the Beautiful
8/28/2007
PWOC
8/25/2007
Mile High City
Note the cute haircuts with all ears still intact! Gator was dressed up as a mouse for a little while.
Tomorrow, Hubs is preaching at the contemporary Chapel service here on "Post" (I'm still transitioning from Navy speak). We're looking forward to it, as he doesn't have many opportunities to do so. What a great weekend!
8/24/2007
Proverbs 31 for Military Wives
Who Can Find an Excellent Military Wife?
Proverbs 31:10-31 (revisited) by Susie Forbes and Deborah Kindel
Editor’s note: The following paraphrased and modified version of portions of Proverbs 31 was authored by Susan Forbes and Deborah Kindel at the request of Liz Springer for a session that Liz and Sarah Hemingway led at White Sulphur Springs. Susan, an Air force wife, and Deborah, a Navy wife, brought their experiences to bear on the assignment. The result was a hit with the wives present, and is worthy of publication. Enjoy!
10 Who can find an excellent military wife? For her worth is far above rank or pay grade.
11 The heart of her military husband trusts in her, and he will have no fear of security breaches.
12 She enjoys the military lifestyle and does him good, enhancing his career at every duty station.
13 She finds curtains for their quarters, and remakes them to fit the windows of the quarters at all future
bases.
14 She is like submarines: she takes advantage of commissary case sales and packs dozens of cans in small quarters; she freezes spaghetti sauce by the quart to prepare for any emergency, and always has chocolate-chip cookies and coffee on hand for family and visitors; she tempts her family with delicacies from foreign ports where they have been stationed, so that her children do not refuse escargot or kimchee when dining out.
15 She rises at 0-dark 30 to make breakfast for her husband before he goes on duty, and makes sure that her teenagers eat good breakfasts before stumbling onto the school bus. She packs their bag lunches, and draws discreet smiley faces or writes words of encouragement on the napkins.
16 She puts aside a sum every month from the household budget and invests it wisely, so that when her husband goes out on a six-month Mediterranean deployment, she and the kids can fly over during school vacation and follow him from port to port.
17 She carries babies on her hip, lugs bags of groceries from car to kitchen, pushes lawn mowers and wields snow shovels. She faithfully works out at the base gym (or Curves) so that she stays healthy and strong. She marvels at the biceps she develops, but fails not to do her morning devotions and read the newspaper.
18 When her husband is out on maneuvers, on patrol or on alert, she panics not. She calls a plumber for a leaking bathroom sink, and when he appears not, she takes a class at Home Depot on home plumbing. In the evenings, she studies French, sews her daughter an Aslan lion costume for Halloween, makes a papier-mâché piñata for the kindergarten class party, and e-mails her husband at sea or while he’s TDY/TAD to let him know that he is missed, but all is well.
19 She happily sews her husband’s new rank insignia on his uniform, and lets out his mess dress as necessary.
20 She delivers casseroles to the sick, baby-sits for other military wives who need a break from taking care of toddlers on their own, and volunteers at the base thrift shop.
21 When her husband receives orders to a base in the northeast, she orders squall jackets and boots for the whole family from the L.L. Bean catalog while still at the duty station in Hawaii.
22 She makes her gown for the dining-out or the Submarine Ball, and her handiwork and sense of style is admired by all.
23 Her husband is respected by his superior officers and his OERs or FITREPS are glowing.
24 She wraps 400 lumpias with other wives and sells them outside the Base Exchange, raising money for the boat/squadron recreation fund.
25 She leans on God for all her needs, and is confident that the Big Detailer in the sky has her family’s good at heart.
26 She modestly and humorously shares wisdom gained in years of service life, and never gossips. She provides a good example to younger wives by letting God’s love shine through her.
27 She looks well to the ways of her household. She packs up halfway boxes for her husband on patrol, sticking in photos, letters and his favorite Snickers bars. She runs her son to his baseball game and her daughter to her soccer game, and knits a scarf for a friend while sitting on the bleachers cheering them on. She teaches Sunday School, has the wardroom/squadron wives over for dinner, volunteers to tutor remedial reading at the middle school, plants daffodil bulbs without knowing for sure that she will be there in the spring to see them bloom, and hosts a birthday party at Chucky Cheese’s without losing her cool.
28 Her children rise up and bring her dandelion bouquets and Christmas ornaments made out of Popsicle sticks. Her husband also gives her his highest praise, saying:
29 “Many service wives endure long separations and frequent moves, but you have made it all seem easy and fun.”
30 Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who relies on the Lord when her husband is serving his country keeps everything in its right order and shall be praised.
31 Give her the faithful love of your heart, and let her family and home be praised by all who know her.
http://ocf.gospelcom.net/pubs/who_can_find.php
Weeping and Gnashing of Teeth...
8/22/2007
Fun at the Park
Gator climbed this tree all by himself. Bull was close behind - monkey see, monkey do!
Too funny!
Today we're going to a playground across the street, Wal-Mart (is any day complete without such a trip?), and maybe a park that is close to the Wal-Mart. Hopefully, pictures will be taken and I can post some new ones.
8/18/2007
Garden of the Gods and Seven Falls
At Seven Falls, there are 7 separate falls within one mile. It was very beautiful. Overall, we had a great day today. Both boys napped in the van while we were driving from place to place!